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Wednesday, July 8, 2015

"Love and Hate..." 'Bettejo Dux' (Vintage Bettejo)

Bettejo Dux has lived on the cosmic Garden
 Island of Kaua'i for over 40 years.

Bettejo is a regular opinion writer in the Garden Island news
 and is the author of the famed novella, "The Scam." 
 Her latest fiction"Children of extinction"
 is now  released and available on Amazon!
Love and Hate

Bettejo and Aristotle
Sticky wicket subject for a brief column. It's Tuesday in Paradise. A heady blooming perfumed day. Always a beautiful day in paradise. I owe my editor a column and  really don't feel up to it. 

The bank behind my house is alive with walking iris. Their little white heads are cheerfully bobbing in the early morning light. My feral flock is scratching and munching on bugs and other juicy chicken delights. A light breeze sets leaves dancing on the bank and slipping silently through the iris I see one kitten stalking. Reba. It's a game. She never catches anything, but I love to watch her hunt. She think she's a big deal. Head honcho feline in this neck of the woods. The chickens trickle off with a flutter and a wink. They blend in so well they disappear in plain sight.
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So, what has this to do with the heavy theme: Love and hate? Well, at that  moment, I felt very loving, until a sudden sodden thought awry leaped in my mind and spoiled the revery. Is it true that love and hate are opposite sides of the same coin, my mind queries? Is it true  you can never really appreciate--or feel--these deep human emotions without experiencing the other? Can one  know what it means to love, if one has  never known what it means to hate?
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Love and hate are powerful--and potent--emotions. Love can be gentle and kind. It soars the human condition. I don't think hate can ever be gentle and kind. I think it must always be aggressive and nasty. It sours the soul, if you believe in such a mysterious entity. It hammers the beating heart flat with bludgeoning blasts of red hot steel. The mad iron monger in the sky's murderous obstruction heaved beneath the feet  of the human travelor.

One of my favorite people, my feed store man, made a  profound statement,  "Atheists just love everything," he said one day. Out of the blue.

Think about it.

Can that be true?

And, anyway, what's it got to do with chickens and kittens and walking iris? What does it have to do with a fragrant day in paradise? With a column over due?

Everything, I think.
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I quoted a Biblical passage recently and sent it to the paper in response to a Christian teacher's letter to the Forum in which he quoted a  passage concerning his interpretation of what his God had to say about gay marriage.
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Here's my quote:

"If any man comes to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sister, and yea his own life also, he cannot be a disciple." (Luke 14:26) It's writ in red. A direct quote  in the New Testament.

Well,  fortunately,  Jesus  didn't say anything about loving kittens and chickens and walking iris and an editor who's going to be cranky receiving a late column.

To wrap it up, may I say? "If you must hate, hate cancer."
  
Bettejo a few years back playing checkers
with her nephew...
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4 comments:

KimoRosen said...

Bettejo, you write with a poetic excellence that I try to learn from. Your style of writing is exceptional. Think about publishing a book of your columns (blogs)! ;-)

Anonymous said...

Yes, a well written, fun reading piece, Bettejo. And, yes, there can be no understanding of 'love' without the knowledge of 'hate'...that's the way it was set up for us humans because God is way smarter than me and you and all the rest. grin emoticon

Bettejo Dux said...

Love it, Dean. Keep on bubbling...

Bettejo Dux said...

They burp. Actuallythat's the polite phrase. They fart like hippos through the mouth. Did you know hippos fart through the mouth? Hippos are good. Xhristians stink...