"The Dark Behind My Eyes..." 'Michael A. Herr' (Aloha Friday)

Renowned author Michael Herr is back guest-blogging on this awesome 'Aloha Friday' talking about  the essence of life and our inner selves...  Make sure and check out Michael's website at; http://www.michaelherr.com/



ALOHA FRIDAY

August 3, 2012

　
It's Aloha Friday...

The Dark Behind My Eyes

Aloha folks,

I credit Terry Pratchett for the phrase, The Dark Behind My Eyes. I forget which book of his contained the phrase, but it got me thinking. That's where I live. That's where I have spent almost seventy years. In the dark behind my eyes. Looking out at the world.

I can see my hands. I can (on a good day and by holding in my stomach) see my feet. I can even see my back, in a mirror. And in that same mirror I can see my face, that mask I show to the world. But I can't see the "me" that resides inside me . . . inside my mind, in the darkness behind my eyes.

When I close my eyes I see memories, and I embrace dreams. And behind those closed eyes of mine, my mind goes on and on and on. In that darkness I plan . . . I remember . . . I hope . . . and I weep. But I can't see . . . at least not what I try to see. I always hope that someday I will see myself in that darkness. That I will finally come face to face, as it were, with my self. My inner self. The self that is the essence of me. The self that peers out from the darkness behind my eyes and tries to make sense of what it sees. And yet . . . do I really want to see myself? I'm not sure I really do want to see, fully, my inner self.

So I continue to peer out at the world, trying to make some sense of it all. And when it gets to be too much for me, I retreat.
I go back and take refuge in the darkness behind my eyes.
So, where do you live?

Okay folks, see you (hopefully) next week.

Hana Hou, (Encore) Shared from Facebook...

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"Unc Charity...." 'Chester "Unc"Lau'

Master Sgt. Chester Lau, aka Unc is a retired cinematographer 
living his naturist  twilight years on the island of Oahu.
"Unc" talks about A Billionaire developer in Shenzhen,China donates all to charity, leaving offspring nothing...

Dear Friends & Enemies:

Be advised that my new pen name is changed to :Unc Charity.  copy righted. Penalty for infringement is mandatory watching & listening 2012 political campaign on TV 24/7 until November 6th,2012 !!!Subject:  Chinese Billionaire donates all to charity, leaving offspring nothing This is another positive effect from Bill Gates and Warren Buffet's call for the "Giving Pledge" campaign that they started in June, this year? Give back to the world for the good of human kind ..,

Newspaper Report: Billionaire developer in Shenzhen,China donates all to charity, leaving offspring nothing

“If my children are competent, they don’t need my money. If they’re not, leaving them a lot of money is only doing them harm.”

Yu Pengnian, China's biggest philanthropist sits in the restaurant atop the hotel he built, where he lives & eats most of his meals.     
Yang Junpo for The Globe & Mail

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/world/chinese-philanthropist-donates-it-all/article1650447/ENJOY WHILE YOU (STILL) CAN!  - Confucius     551BC-479BC


Hana Hou, (Encore) Shared from facebook...
shared Sayings and Quotes's photo.

"Jane Fonda and Me...and You..." 'Bettejo Dux' (Classic Wednesday)

Guest-blogger Bettejo Dux is one of Kauai's most colorful people, she has lived on the cosmic island of Kaua'i for over 40 years... She is an animal lover, people lover and enjoys life to the fullest. Today we learn of Bettejo's  Encounter with Jane Fonda...



On the cover of last week’s Parade was a picture of the very glamorous Jane Fonda at 73.  Very few of us looked that good at 27, let alone 73, but-trust me here-we can all do as Jane did, age gracefully and graciously. Her secret? She started young, she was born beautiful, but that’s not the point. The point is, she took care of herself, and taking care of yourself can’t begin too young.

The main and most important quality of aging gracefully is good health. That’s where it starts and that’s where it ends. There is nothing more  appealing than good health, at whatever age. And YOU and YOU alone are responsible for that. You must decide today, you can’t start any younger, that’s what you want from life. Work towards that end and-trust me-baring some serious misadventure over which you have no control, it will pay off.  Money, jewels, clothes, big cars, rich mates, fame, mean nothing if you’re not healthy.

So how does one attain that goal?  First of all, don’t get fat. This is not to say that if you’re born big-boned, with a tendency to plumpness, that’s not attractive.  Big girls grow up to be big women and, if that’s you, that’s you, but don’t contribute to it. Not all of us can be as slim, long and lanky as Jane, but we needn’t end up looking like a circus tent, either. Whatever healthy pounds you carry will depend on your natural build. Consider it, keep it, and love it. If you’re into the ‘man thing’-or the ‘woman thing’-lots of  others love it, too. Don’t you dare let anyone tell you that because you’re big you’re unattractive. Carry yourself proudly, carry yourself well, we can’t all look like Twiggy's. Anyhow, that’s just the style today. It can change tomorrow.

Find out who you are, how you like yourself, love yourself, and stay put. Be happy
there, because happiness with yourself counts, too.

Before I dig deep into how we do this, I’d like to share an experience with Jane.
I met her first in Honolulu at the home of a Quaker family in Manoa into whose home Jane and the others in the musical production FREE THE ARMY SHOW were invited after the performance; which was packed, by the way. I felt so much older than she. So much more burdened. I had a kid in that war. She seemed free, young, and doing something important. What she considered-me, too-the most important thing in her life at that time: protesting the war in Vietnam.  She made mistakes, plenty of them, but she did what she had to do. And, you know what? That’s part of the aging process, too.

I won’t go into the political end of it. In tomorrow’s column, I’ll discuss some important tips and clues as to where to begin right now.

Hana Hou,( Encore) "courtesy of facebook shares..."                                                                          .

I love Earnest Hemingway quotes.....

Editor's note, Dakinetalk guest bloggers do not necessarily represent the opinions of dakinetalk. Guest bloggers are given space to express their beliefs and or opinions. We feel there are many roads and like to give people space to express their thoughts,after-all that's what dakine is...Aloha, James "Kimo" Rosen, Publisher.

"Hawai'i wardrobe does nothing for a good body...‏ 'James "Kimo" Rosen

 This blog appeared as an opinion article
in the 09-01-12 edition of the Kaua'i
Garden Island News, titled,"It's
easy to hide extra weight."
http://thegardenisland.com/news/opinion/mailbag/letters-for-saturday-september/article_1f1456ac-f3e3-11e1-8247-0019bb2963f4.html

The Hawai'i wardrobe
is very simple, nobody
notices if you lose or gain weight.


Nobody notices when you lose or gain weight in Hawai'i  because so many people dress like me. We wear our elastic band shorts with a t-shirt on size too big along with Hawaiian slippahs that would fit half the population.
Wearing an outfit like this makes it easy to gain weight without even noticing, since you have about a 30 lb  variance in either direction.

I have been dieting and recently lost about 15 lbs and nobody seemed to notice, I am still wearing the same clothes, elastic band shorts, t-shirt, head-band and slippahs.

I guess the beauty of  Hawai'i is the style of clothes we wear, you can weigh 160 or 200 and still wear the same clothes. The Hawai'i wardrobe does nothing  for a good body, but can sure hide alot of imperfections.

 Why do you think they call it Paradise! Welcome to Paradise!
  This blog appeared as an opinion article
in the 09-01-12 edition of the Kaua'i
Garden Island News, titled,"It's
easy to hide extra weight."
http://thegardenisland.com/news/opinion/mailbag/letters-for-saturday-september/article_1f1456ac-f3e3-11e1-8247-0019bb2963f4.html

 Hana Hou, (Encore) "Source, shared from Facebook..."

"The Joy of Facebook..." 'Judith Whitehead' (Inspiration Monday)

"Guest-blogger Judith Whitehead lives in Amherst N.Y. and has worked in the ophthalmology field of medicine for over 30 years..." She talks about  modern technology and the joy of facebook   ;D) Enjoy...

THE JOY OF FACEBOOK

　
I have written in the past about technology and how we have become more dependent on it and less communicative face to face with people since texting, computers, e-mail and many other modes of getting our thoughts across to other people have come along.

 There is one mode of communication that has made a huge difference in my life this century; 'Facebook' has put me in touch with so many dear people that I had lost touch with over the years. Its become a wonderful way to re kindle old relationships, catch up with people from the past and partake in the joy of others as they share their pictures, stories and happy times.

It’s one of the first things I look at in the morning and the last thing I check before I retire for the night.
It’s given me joy and sadness all at the same time and has become an amazing tool to use throughout the day.

Thank you Mr. Zukerberg for your contribution to our society.

Hana Hou,( Encore) Shared from facebook...
Encore) Shared from Facebook  and http://www.wittitutes.com/

Editor's note, Dakinetalk guest bloggers do not necessarily represent the opinions of dakinetalk. Guest bloggers are given space to express their beliefs and or opinions. We feel there are many roads and like to give people space to express their thoughts,after-all that's what dakine is...Aloha, James "Kimo" Rosen, Publisher

"Good thing people didn't think like that, back then..." 'James "Kimo" Rosen'




"It's mind blowing how nothing gets done in these days
of Contrarians, Yuppies and Hippies arguing
over every new project..."
Aloha, check out my opinion article in the (03-22-13) edition of the Kaua'i Garden Island news, "Imagine."
http://thegardenisland.com/news/opinion/mailbag/letters-for-friday-march/article_41ac66b6-92b5-11e2-bc49-001a4bcf887a.html

Imagine today's Contrarians, Hippies and Yuppies contemplating over developments back in the early 1900's.
Imagine the time is many years ago and  Kaua'i is about to construct the Kuhio hwy, imagine the anti-development people of today living back then? They would say to no to a  highway, because they hear cars cause cancer from the exhaust and prefer to stay in their horse and buggy. 

 Imagine the time comes to build an airport and the people are concerned with noise pollution and  the potential of birds crashing into airplanes?

Imagine when telephones became popular and telephone poles needed to be erected, what about eye pollution, what about the radiation put off by the wires?

Imagine any of the modern conveniences of today having to be approved by environmental impact studies back when they were first introduced into society?

I am thankful the people of today did not live back then, otherwise I am sure we would still be using the pony express! Not that's there anything wrong with that. ;D)

http://thegardenisland.com/news/opinion/mailbag/letters-for-friday-march/article_41ac66b6-92b5-11e2-bc49-001a4bcf887a.html

 Hana Hou, (Encore)  "Source, Facebook Shares..."

Another Hana Hou! (Shared from Facebook shares...)
Haili Lincoln shared Crazy shit's photo.

"2012 Girls of Walmart..." 'Obama Da Dog'' (Source)



Obama Da Dog would like to share with you her
favorite store's  summer calendar!  Obama
decided upon this blog after reading July 8th's
dakinetalk blog #718,"Hallelujah Walmart..!"

 The 2012 Girls of Walmart -

 Summer Calendar Edition

Yes folks, Hershey’s has a new Butterscotch Kiss. Look carefully. Can you believe more than one person bought these shorts? Is that injured foot from kicking your own BUTT, or for wearing that out in public?  So! Exactly how many sizes  too small would you say this outfit is?  If you woke up in good spirits this morning,  this should ruin the rest of your day!  Should I buy the pies  or plain bread?  Oh dear God!  This must be what a cougar is.  Dang, it’s hot in here, good thing I clipped the legs on these pj's.  Nothing runs like a Deere!  Yeah, the ankle weights are  going to make a BIG difference!  I didn’t know I could buy  a table dance at Walmart too!  It's bring sexy back, not bring sexy across your whole back-side!  Honey, when I'm done WITH the potato salad,  can ya pass the dog food!  I know they look good,  but tell me, are they even?  Like removing the flip-flops  makes a big difference ???  Doesn't the flowered bra  just bring the whole outfit together?  You go girl! This summer  it's all about the layered look?  No Sir, I'm not coming back into the store  with you, .......I paid for the melons.  Oh good! A gut-crack instead  of all those butt-cracks!  Bought a paper shredder yesterday...  Love it! Love it!  Please tell me, she's wearing a thong!  To do list: ....... Quick stop to the candy isle  before bartending at Bubba's Bar & Grill.  AND THE WALMART WINNER IS....................  When you can't find your BRA just  Stuff them in your pants!

Regards;

No trees were harmed in the creation of this email, though numerous electrons were horribly inconvenienced.

Hana Hou, (Encore) Philadelphia cheesecake ice-cream, would you try it? Read article in Huffington post!
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/andy-deemer/cheesesteak-ice-cream_b_1698451.html?utm_hp_ref=food