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Tuesday, August 26, 2014

"WE ALL NEED PROFESSIONAL CARE GIVERS ..." 'Chester Unc" Lau' ( True story)

Dakinetalks favorite Uncle (Chester Lau)
"Unc"  is really passionate about creating a national Caregivers day.
Any help , support or ideas would be greatly appreciated...
'Unc' currently resides on the Hawai'ian Island of Oahu. 
He is a retired cinematographer,
 and  enjoys giving the politicians a bad time...

WE ALL NEED  PROFESSIONAL CARE GIVERS 

WARNING !!! 


Like Death & Taxes,the day will come,EVERY ONE WILL NEED PROFESSIONAL CARE GIVERS

 Your working friends & relatives will not be able to help you 24/7, Social Security alone will not help long term care.You will need $3,000 or more per month for long term care.You get up one morning  & discovered that you cannot balance your self , walk with out a walker or manage your daily routines. 

Your spouse can help temporarily but  someday he or she will need the professional care givers too,are you  prepared to face this calamity ? 

You are now out of  the work  force,  will you have the financial resources  to handle the situation ?  think  about it !!!  I am retired  and not in the care giver business. I have  experienced my own health problems.

For  now I am  fortunately in a professional care  home however  it is killing my meager financial savings !!!

Sample of Information from Chester Lau

No one lives forever , be thankful that you have the good fortune to enjoy & love them while they are alive, to ease the pain for survivors & loved ones, every one should prepare in writing a step by step "What to do in the event of  one’s demise " in advance. 

 Here is one for you" Never be afraid of dying, it will only happen when it's supposed to & when it does happen, it will be all right.  The memory of dying should be comfort rather than grief "(Readers Digest) "Better if you owe Government taxes & they can't collect  !  Let your loved ones benefit from your blood & sweats instead of the Government who don't even say "  THANK YOU  " but wants more !!!  (Chester Lau).

BE NICE TO ME WHEN I AM ALIVE, NO TEARS AFTER I AM GONE !!! 

Please notify my Executors 



IMMEDIATELY with this step by step instruction for them to follow in the event of my demise with priority as follow:

1= Executor         Ph:--------------------Cell--------------------          
                    SSN- _ _ _  _ _ _ _ _ _Email :-----------------------------
Address-----------------------

2=Executor Mrs.------- Ph:------------------Cell---------------
SSN--------Email---------------------
address-------------------------

3=Executor Mrs. ------------Ph: --------------------Cell            
SSN-------------    Email :-----------------------------
Address-------------------------

    I appointed three (3) Executors,because in time of need,not all are available due to work or health issues.

Think about it and remember to enjoy every second of your life, because time races by so much quicker than you think.

So take care of yourself, be happy, love deeply and enjoy life  !

Here's wishing you a wonderful and beautiful day.

  DON'T COMPLAIN ABOUT GROWING OLD…

FEW PEOPLE GET THE PRIVILEGE

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3 comments:

KimoRosen said...

Unc, Mahalo for your wisdom and good advice!

Chester "Unc" Lau said...

Lachayem,Rabbi Kimo,Good Job in copy editing,hope people can use this or add to help everyone.

KimoRosen said...

so far it has 60 hits, very informative... Mahalos